Treatment of love since ancient times
Since ancient times, people suffering from the love of one party, a love that is when love is deep and strong party and the other party does not feel the same degree of emotion or hidden for some reason, so the suffering of the loving great, and literature are full of stories of love from one side, and there are many songs that talk about the suffering of the loving of one party, there are generally two kinds of love in the books of literature and history and in the songs, there is a love story of one party, and the story of love that are on both sides, but there are barriers between them,
Of course the love of one party in which great suffering, and in some cases lead to psychological problems and even physical, spoke doctors since the time of the ancient Greeks such as Socrates and Plato on the disease of love, has excelled in diagnosis and treatment of Muslim scholars such as Ibn Sina, Al-Razi, has stated of symptoms: sleepless nights, thinking about continuing in the beloved, dry eye of the month, increased heart rate at the mention of the beloved, loss of appetite and other symptoms,
Has advised a number of treatments, the first combination between the couple to marry, if possible, For the people not to stand in the way of lovers, but they help them to marry, the combination between the couple in marriage was and still is a panacea for the suffering of love,
And treatment the other who advised by scholars, past is the "concealment of love," For loving to conceal his love do not tell anyone about it, may tell the likes of his love and his desire to marry him, then it confidential, do not tell anyone about it, without a relative or friend, and do previously he has to stop and never do it again, and seek help in patience and prayer and supplication, God in his hand all the things and keys hearts and knows what is in hearts, in failing heart, but love and friendly Raouf knew about it,
He advised the scientists ancient treating another lover of one party, that the bully was older women Afeemln that they know the other girls that arouse his attention, and before he falls in love Ibadenh for that girl new, so Iemenh that does not fall in love again,
It is beautiful what you wrote the articles Mrs. Aziza inhibitor Ovia in her column in the newspaper Okaz on 05/27/2009, entitled: "Benefits of abandonment," there may be a lot of good in the love of one party, how many humans Anadl situation and rectify the same and made in his career as a result of Love of one party, and the suffering of the love of one party may make a person humble himself and feels the suffering of people, and make him learn patience, and looking under the surface of the same, how much of a man close to God as a result of the suffering of love, How many people know of his love and become a better person with the days, There may be a lot of good in this love sometimes,
Love from one side how can we overcome this problem?
Love in general is a partnership between two people, the love of one party is present when the feelings of a certain someone, but as individuals, without showing the internal feelings and emotions of the other party is unique only to himself.
The view of psychiatry that love of one party starts in adolescence when the image of love and interdependence is not a clear and simple, every person needs at this stage to exercise the feelings of love without the presence of another Party, so we find ourselves attracted to read the stories, romance or watch certain and are tied to emotional heroes or anyone we see fit and has many wonderful qualities of the partner of a lifetime.
Here, we can be certain that these feelings very nature and should not be Tantqdha family requires just teen only is more care and containment and no pressure on this chord and accused him of imagination, because these feelings really flowing feelings Nabaa of the same and should not be concerned about it, but we must leave things are going in the natural Mejrha with care and containment and surveillance from a distance.
If they continue the love of one party after a period of adolescence, we do not need to use the direct route Balbouh what lies within us to the other party especially the "women", that there are different ways to reveal this love speak for themselves, and by seeking some emotion and passion of the second party to make sure Is this true love Icaour by the other party is also a sense of whether this mutual admiration between the two parties before authorizing its
It is here she can find out whether the other party respond to them as well or not before they turn this admiration into love and then to the pain and then to a chronic medical condition can not be disposed of longevity. Where pain and left its mark more time than we imagine, has been distorting the concept of love inside us forever.
That love is one-sided return on a person to a personal, non-mature emotionally or mature in thinking, whether men or women and this is the general rule but felt that this topic Qaeda have homosexuals from certain figures we accept in our lives we can not but love love my soul sincere They deserve this love and beloved here does not need to declare his love for the particular circumstances, but only to possess a sense of Hedda beautiful and that he found the right person who gives this a sense of sophistication. It is in God's pure love for God's sake.
In a general rule, men and women are equal in the same suffering, if the love of one party can not disclose to the other parties directly for fear of rejection of the first party. If you still do not reveal the pain with love by the one suffering here are specific where you can not undo these feelings can not be declared by the years of life may go in vain Here is the advice the necessary authorization of love and admiration of the Volm best moment of pain for years.
And always reveal a powerful weapon to avoid crises and our advice to reveal here is not muted, release these emotions through the process of the first treatment of these negative emotions
Treatment of love
The first to marry or Itsry, the Prophet peace be upon him said: If one of you to consider the pros woman, let him his family, it is only with such as them. This decrease, which weakens the desire and adoration.
II: to keep it on the five daily prayers and supplication time of magic, and be in the presence of prayer and humble heart and a lot of prayer, saying: "O hearts proved my heart on your religion, your hearts bank exchange my heart for obedience and obedience to your messenger.
When he became addicted to prayer and supplication to God for the disbursement of his heart, as he says: as well as to dismiss him evil and indecency, that was one of our faithful.
Third: that away from home this person and meeting those who meet with him, so as not to hear his story, nor does it have on the eye or the effect, the dimension of Jaffa, and when to tell the male twice the impact on the heart, let him do these things and reads, including renewed his way. End
Two methods for the treatment of the love of one party
First
Romantic, dreamy, sensitive, shy, and also the person who lives under the pressure of what, or in difficult circumstances it finds an outlet for his feelings, only to live in the dreams of love from the tip only.
And his love of the party and carry on even if one spent in these feelings for months or years, in the hope of achieving the dream.
And feel of the likes of the tip only, that all impulsive emotions towards those who liked it or submissive as if he was drawn to him without the will of some other person, who fancy that it reciprocates or Sibadelh the same feelings.
May not notice the lost time spend by thinking about the one who believes that he loves him, and imagine that it is not unprecedented in all of the known, and will not offset like him, like a legendary hero to one story, and may lead indulge in the illusions that love to the neglect of the study, or neglect of work, or isolation within the self, and the wolf, and non-integration into society.
Is called the love of one party as the "negative love" where it love or minus truncated, not complete its parties. It causes confusion, or concern will not feel it because it does not know the feelings of love.
One of the most stages against which young people for this kind of love, the stage of adolescence where the passions are not yet mature, and he wants everyone to know the opposite sex and find out his feelings, Vingzb young man quickly feelings towards the opposite sex (or vice versa) and is only a short period - may be at first sight - and imagine that this is true love, and that this is a person who would be his share, without knowing him a lot, but only just as imagined and expect him to.
And often ends in love wake up shocked by the loving boyfriend, and realizes that he was living in an illusion.
Or may pass this test without problems or hassles.
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