Love at first sight

Love at first sight (Love at first sight of the fact or fiction?) .. Of the questions that arise on the thinking of teenage girls at the beginning of the period of youth. 

And wondering or confused about the right way to help her daughter. With little experience, to overcome the critical age without falling victim to the illusions of love .. Directed and how to discover the difference between true love and admiration transit .. 

And psychology experts say that love at first sight is a quick sense of the girl attracted to someone has never meet him, admiration for one of the qualities and strength of Kmzarh or features of his face and his smile and his manner or his words and tones of his voice or his actions. Believes the little girl they had found the boy who dreams as long as they wish to meet him. 

But the reality is usually different from the fiction and movies as it is not necessary to Ibadelha boy the same admiration, and sense of Feed may weaken and fade after that occurs between them to a meeting or several meetings feel which one or both of the harmony between zero and a sense of Feed and the aura developed by the girl over the head of the beloved were not real, but the result of imagination. 

The writer refers the U.S. (Eric Goodman) after the event field to a large group of young men and women in secondary schools and the beginning of Undergraduate in New York that the strong impression resulting from the first meeting between the girl and young man, called by many the name of love at first sight, have deceptively in most cases. 

It may be this sense the result of passion, one idea of ​​love itself, or because one of them tried to embody the image or qualities beloved in fantasy when the other, and then revealed to him in the future that imagination is contrary to reality and the admiration based on looks and not the substance, procedure quickly fading. 

And loving when he discovers that the reality differed from the imagination, and love at first sight did not result in a productive emotion and not the beloved boy or a girl dreams or decree that the angel in the imagination disturbed by a sense of frustration and sadness, anger, and feel primarily responsible for the deception itself. 

Love is real is not based on first glance of the beloved, but the conviction the full aspects of the personality of the other partner and way of thinking and emotions mutual, and that is the girl that love, overflowing and they found people shared their ideas and feelings and sympathizes with her and care about and feel is accompanied by happiness, comfort and tranquility shall be willing to give it heart without feeling that they made any sacrifice.

Love at first sight impressive virtual self-deception 

Some swim in the sea of ​​love after the first look is located prisoner of beauty or attractiveness, and although the poets often sang the magic of love at first sight, but some opposed to the existence of this kind of love, especially scientists, citing that the attraction to someone does not mean falling in love. 

We have a team of researchers at the University of Florida that there are people who enjoy the attractive faces and forms, enchant, and lashed the attention of people to them, irrespective of the ingredient that gives them the attraction, magic force to the eyes and hearts of others, and that is similar to a large extent the power of magnet to attract things to it. 

The researchers explained that liking a person is not required attributes for each attraction, you may meet people marveled, appearance, or look at his eyes, or his way of smiling, or talking, or even the color of his eyes. 

The study conducted by Dr. "John Miner," was published in the journal "Journal of Persaunaleti Land Socialtext Physiology", she stressed that love at first sight is a visual level, which was confirmed by tests carried out on a number of men and women who were attracted their attention towards the characters has a gravity-fed during the first and a half seconds of seeing them. The question that presents itself that you can love the magic of the eyes taken to withstand the vicissitudes of life if the marriage between the two parties? 

Deception often 

The American writer (Eric Goodman) has concluded after conducting an event field to a large group of young men and women in secondary schools and the beginning of Undergraduate in New York, that the strong impression resulting from the first meeting between the girl and young man, called by many the name of love at first sight, be illusory in most cases. 

It may be this sense the result of passion, one idea of ​​love itself, or because one of them tried to embody the image or qualities beloved in fantasy when the other, and then revealed to him in the future that imagination is contrary to reality and the admiration based on looks and not the substance, procedure quickly fading. 

Indicates Goodman that loving when he discovers that the reality differed from the imagination, and love at first sight did not result in an emotion very fruitful and that the beloved is not a boy or a girl dreams or the owners set out in imagination disturbed by a sense of frustration and sadness, anger, and feel primarily responsible for the deception itself. 

Does not rise to the level of love 

What some believe that love at first sight, it is often just impressive virtual does not rise to the level of love, this is what he sees Dr. Yahya Rakhawy professor of psychiatry at the University of Cairo. 

He pointed out that love at first sight kind of self-deception resulting from the desire to fall in love in addition to the advantages possessed by the other party Kalosamp or dress. Quite a phenomenon mirage in the desert is just a optical illusion feel thirsty. 

He continues, Dr. Rakhawy Speaking to the newspaper "Middle East", saying: "Although I think the illusion of love at first sight, but each rule exceptions, and to assure that it is just an exception can not be relied upon in the success of married life later, because a successful marriage must be based love to mature, which supports each party the other party and accept the disadvantages and advantages as it is, and knows how to cope and live with them. The so-called love at first sight, it often occurs in adolescents is the age of the search for love and the exercise of any emotional experience by changing ratios of hormones in the body, and its attendant looked to pass with such experience. and this often feels the boy or girl at that age the trauma that may change the course of his life when the failure of the experiment. With regard to the possibility of a sense of party that causes the case of the love, the feelings in front of him, it depends on chemistry of feelings between the parties. " 

Relationship of the dimensions of a real 

The toxicity of Dr. Ibrahim, Professor of Psychiatry at the University of milk, she believes it is possible to love relationships at first glance that lasts just in case if both parties realized the need to transform this admiration to an immediate serious relationship with a real dimensions. 

Confirmed that the hearts in the hands of Rahman heartfelt as he wishes and can be linked to the two people in love at first sight but still admired the surface, but if they are the culmination of the relationship to marriage, this is a different matter requires know each other, in more depth and knowledge of printing and way of thinking and all the details related to it and his life to know whether each will be able to complete life with the other party or not, but the disaster that always occur in cases of love in general and in this particular kind, that control emotion in the thinking of the parties themselves do not confer the opportunity to test these feelings. 

Love does not begin before the year 

He also stressed the scientists, what happens after the first look is impressive, but true love only comes after a year, and the evidence that researchers at the University of "Bath" concluded that the couple did not arrive to the point of balance required in their relationship in terms of passion for each other, or intimacy, and are usually described true love only a year after they met. 

The scientists reported that 61% of 147 pairs of lovers were surveyed online said they did not go through the situation of "true love" only a year after their first meeting. 

He described the researcher Jeff decaffeinated love as "a sense of intimacy to the other," and pointed out that modern communication techniques such as the Internet and e-mails encouraging the old methods of spinning. 

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